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I’d like to demonstrate this point with a a recent letter from a reader of my book:
“Hi Michael- I'm fascinated by women's tests. I know a woman is interested in me. She 'mentions' that other guys are interested in her. It's an attempt to see my reaction, and create a little jealousy. I don't believe she's being a bitch. She really wants THE MAN, and she's growing impatient. (That's my take on it anyhow.) What's the best way to reframe this kind of test, and yet leave her still thinking I might be interested in her? Is it a bad idea to try to let her know she has a chance with THE MAN? Andrew, Toronto” |
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The whole point though is to do something that is interesting and allows for you to get to know each other better. Even if you don’t click on a romantic level, you can always have an enjoyable afternoon that won’t leave you feeling like you should have done your laundry instead.
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Well, I'm here to tell you that the ONLY difference is that ONE of these guys has LEARNED the language to convey intrinsic worth, and the other one has NOT. THIS is LANGUAGE- body language, behavior, words, attitude. It is the way COOL GUYS COMMUNICATE that they are sexually desirable to women. And the good news is that this language actually is not haphazard once it's explained to you.
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